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from an interview from a recent
issue of Dance Notes.
How do you have so much energy?
Shalene: I think I'm just fortunate.
I'm an extrovert, and I love being around people. I love
teaching as much as I love my own dancing, and my students
are so terrific, they really fuel me. I get excited about
their being excited and it is just a wonderful cyclical
thing.
Ben: What we said earlier is really
the case... there are many of us who have various levels
of passion for what we do, and I'd like to think that our
passion is among the highest. Some people criticize us for
not putting enough into our own professional dancing, for
giving our students more than we take for ourselves. But
teaching our students is an equal part of our business.
How many hours a day do you teach?
Ben: It depends. As competitions come
closer, sometimes it's more. I typically don't do more that
7 or 8 a day. Shalene, on many occasions does 9 or 10 in
a day.
And practices, too?
Shalene: Every opportunity we get!
Do you plan to practice a certain
time each day?
Shalene: We set aside a slot every day
from 12 to 3, where we try to pay attention to our own dancing,
and to our own goals. But because we run a business also,
there are a lot of things we have to tend to, whether it's
paperwork or phone calls or helping our teachers out, or
whatever. That, unfortunately, kind of encroaches into our
practice time. But we are moving our studio, and are going
to be renting space from another facility. All of our staff
is going to come with us, but we are not going to have so
much of the logistical things, like the paperwork. So, we're
excited about the fact that our 12 to 3 hour slot is going
to be exclusively ours now and we're really looking forward
to that. It's going to be a good year for us.
When you first danced with Shalene,
did you know you really wanted to dance with her?
Ben: I knew after a few days. I really
believed she would be what she is today, or I wouldn't have
continued.
And did you want to dance with Ben,
or did you just want to dance?
Shalene: I had danced in a couple of
regional Fred Astaire events, in a novice category, and
I absolutely loved it. Ben was the most advanced dancer
in the studio and in our region and so I knew for sure that
he was definitely the person I wanted to dance with. I knew
he could take me the furthest, the quickest, and I was excited
to get there.
You knew each other for almost ten
years before you got married. Why did it take so long?
Shalene: Actually,
we'd known for a long, long time.
Ben: For several
years, but when do you find the time? We haven't been on
our honeymoon yet.
Shalene: It's
probably going to be our one-year anniversary before we
finally take the time off from the school to go. But we
knew. We were together 24 hours a day, seven days a week,
and we loved it. And within a year after we were together,
we were completely committed to one another. We knew we
were going to get married, but I'm quite a bit younger than
he is, and
Ben: Hey, hey,
hey!
Shalene: I always
knew that I didn't want to get married when I was 20 or
21. I wanted to wait until I was a little bit older, because
people change a lot in their twenties. We had a beautiful,
beautiful wedding this year. It was everything I ever dreamed
it would be.
Ben: And she
didn't give up her teaching schedule to plan it. That was
in July, and we had a big competition the next weekend,
in Nashville.
Shalene: So we couldn't take a
honeymoon, but we will definitely take one soon. We plan
to go on a Mediterranean cruise.
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